May 272019
 

Tarot has been a part of my life for such a long time that I forget that it’s not also a part of other people’s lives. It seems that most people are aware the cards exist and have seen them used in movies and on TV. Some go to a fair or a party and on a lark they get a reading. If they get a good reader, they will catch on that there is more to this than a deck of cards. Some of those folks come back. Some will get freaked out and never come back. There are those who know very little but believe they know enough to dismiss the whole business as evil and they want no part of it. Those people aren’t reading this blog so we can forget about them.

When I read for walk-ins at the shop I get at least one customer a day who has no real idea why they want a reading or what the point is but they pay for one and sit down across from me anyway and there are those who are curious but haven’t gone this far. This is for them.

A tarot reading is information but it is information the way Google is information: it gives the best results with a question or at least a topic. I can pull cards and tell you what they say but without a question or topic there is no context.

Cards from Pam’s Vintage Tarot

If I pulled these cards for a romance question the interpretation could be that money is an interfering factor in the progress of your relationship. If this were for a job interview question I would say the client did well at the interview, they would offer the job at good money, and she would have cause to celebrate. The question matters.

A tarot reading can give you a different perspective. When you are contemplating something in your life and spending a lot time thinking about it, it’s helpful to get another view of the situation. The cards are not invested in your preferences or your choices so the messages they give are frequently indifferent to those things. Sometimes this is just what you need to get a fresh look at your circumstances. Sometimes it will piss you off. Both things are useful.

A tarot reading can help you make decisions. When faced with two seemingly good ideas tarot can help give you clarity. The cards will ratify the decision you want to make but for some reason didn’t let yourself. This will make you feel good about that decision. It feels like validation. What’s also interesting is when the cards say the other decision is better. If you are disappointed by the outcome of the reading you might not be too happy with the tarot but you will know how you really feel about the decision in front of you.

Next time you’re at a fair or come across a shop with a reader, you will have a better idea of what to expect if you choose to have a reading. Be sure to have a question or topic and remember it’s information and advice. What you do with that is entirely up to you.

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May 062019
 

Mr. Wonderful is leaving on a business trip. He hates traveling. He doesn’t mind being somewhere else. It’s the getting from here to there and back again that causes his distress. I feel for him. I walked into our room to find him sorting through his itinerary, organizing things for his trip while listening to the sappiest music playing on his tablet. He was singing along to it too. When he realized I was watching him he said “It cheers me up.” Well, then, Mr. Wonderful, carry on!


This is a thing we all do to some degree to help navigate life and smooth the rough edges. We change our atmosphere to help change our mood. Often it’s done reactively to calm ourselves down and it’s effective. I like to use it deliberately and I coach my clients to make use of this tool to manage not only their mood but their presence in the world.


Remember when you were a kid and you played ‘dress up’? You would put on a cape, or a crown, or both and suddenly you were a superhero or a princess. You felt like you could fly. You felt regal and important. How do you feel when you get dressed for work in the morning? Do you don an outfit that makes you feel powerful or one that makes you feel like you disappear? It matters. When you come home from work do you change out of your work clothes? What clothes do you change in to? How do they make you feel? The most important question: Is this working for you?

There are many things in our lives that are outside our control. But there are also many things we can control that we have chosen not to. We fall into routines that we no longer think about and mindlessly behave in ways that may not be helping us. It’s good for us to periodically take a step back and reevaluate the things we do, especially the things we do every day. The habits and routines we have reinforce themselves and the mindset that goes with them. Things that are repeated daily become frameworks and our life is lived inside them and shaped by them.


When you dress in a hurry, in the same outfit you’ve worn a hundred times, that you bought because it fit the dress code, not because you liked it, you don’t feel good in it. You may not feel anything in it, but you certainly don’t feel confident and powerful. What would your work day be like if you did feel confident and powerful? How might your career progress if you showed up in your power every day? What would you wear to feel that personal power?

This isn’t just about clothes. It extends out into your environment too. I have a friend whose day job is nothing exciting but it finances the life she is building for herself. She plays a particular mix of music on the way to work and a different mix on the way home. The first thing she does, when she comes home from work, is to change into the clothes that resonate with the new life she is building. The work clothes get put away. Incense gets lit. Her jewelry changes, her shoes change, and her hairdo is different. It’s about shifting from one persona to another. It’s about changing the energy she is living in to support the vision she is creating. Her work clothes are beautiful but they are part of a costume for that performance. Her costume, when she isn’t at work, is about who she is then. It delineates her work life from her home life. The physical changes enhance and enable the mental shift and her time away from work feels more like her own when she does these things.

How do you want to feel when you go about your day? What is the soundtrack for that feeling? What scent puts you in the state? What clothing invokes that feeling? Too many changes at once? Try changing one thing tomorrow and see how it feels? Then change another, and another, and let me know how it goes.

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